Episode 2
Nurturing Relationships with Dr. Lynyetta Willis
Relationships are a gift and when healthy, require us to go to spaces of incredible vulnerability. As I’ve navigated seasons in my life and career, I’ve come to understand the work that’s been necessary to nurture and shape some of the most critical relationships in my life. You too can probably appreciate the impact your own moments of stretch and growth have had on those around you.
Today, in this episode I speak with Dr. Lynyetta Willis, Psychologist, Author, and Family Empowerment Coach about nurturing our most critical relationships. Through her work, Dr. Willis helps families transform Stable Misery® cycles or unhelpful patterns that keep them stuck, so they can stop passing down toxic intergenerational patterns, strengthen relationships that matter most, and continue to grow as parents and partners.
Our heartfelt discussion reveals the struggles that come with vulnerability and how this influences the way we show up in relationships.
I know you’re going to laugh, be lifted and challenged in this conversation.
Enjoy!
Topics We Covered:
[1:40]: When we prioritize our relationships and nurture them, we are able to show up better and healthy in the lives of others. Lean in to who you are so you can show up and be available to serve others.
[4:22]: Dr. Lynyetta believes in order to create lasting shifts in our culture and world we must begin by shifting the consciousness of families. She’s committed to transforming the world, one family at a time.
[6:50]: We look back and acknowledge the good and the bad and choose what we will take forward. We honor those that have come before us, those who’ve played a large part in forming the women that you are. We take from them and leverage their wisdom, it influences how you will choose to form the generations going forward with your own approach to relationships. By this, we acknowledge the knowledge and the trauma that has been handed down through generations.
[12:24]: We have to prune the tree. This is honoring and the type of legacy we want to leave; thoughtful and transformative. Taking the shame out of it is so important.
[14:30]: Overtime if you don’t find time to balance how you encounter your emotions, you let it out on everyone else and our relationships suffer. This has everything to do with your own care and well-being.
[21:00]: We have to make conscious transitions between work and home. Dr. Lynyetta helps us acknowledge that when we shift from one part of our day to another, like coming home at the end of the day, there are different parts of us required and others that we need to leave behind. Give your nervous system the opportunity to calm down and come back to baseline. There’s an even higher level of intention necessary if you work in a home environment.
[31:30]: What are the myths that you have believed through the years? Understand where your beliefs are coming from, those that have been handed down from you. From there take small steps to honor realizations around feelings. Dr. Lynyetta and Sharnell give practical steps to then move forward.
[34:00]: We can hurt so many relationships if we don’t stop and become aware of ourselves. Or hard shell and lack of vulnerability that is honored in one setting is not welcomed when it comes to other relationships. Our children are requiring more of us, this generation can see through it and they want all of you.
[43:00]: Surround yourself with others that will shape you personally and professionally as you are pursuing this next season and navigating your way through.
[44:30]: Our relationships have a tendency to suffer because we are chasing after something and looking for fulfillment in life. When we are not grounded, we run towards a sense of worth. What we really need is a personal sense of worth and value.
[59:00]: Healing and forgiveness is part of the process of transformation and so important to show up in our life and relationships.
[1:00:00]: When we prioritize having nurtured and healthy relationships, we’re able to reap the rewards for generations to come. This important work has everything to do with being self-aware and consciously deciding that other people are important to your journey in life and career.
Links and Resources:
Connect with Dr. Willis:
Website: www.drlwillis.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/drlwillis/
Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrLWillis
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/drlwillis/
Connect with me:
Download my 3-Day Devotional Seasons of Significance: Know Who You Are, Where You’ve Been, and Believe For What’s Next.
Join my VIP One-on-One Coaching Program
Join my Women That Lead Sisterhood Community
Website: https://somei-brandstrategy.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharnellweathersby/
Book Recommendations:
Stable Misery Free Roadmap - www.healingstablemisery.com
Quiz! What’s Your Parenting Trigger Score - https://drlwillis.link/trigger-score
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About your host, Sharnell
Hi there, I’m Sharnell.
This podcast community is a passion of mine! From a growing corporate career to Founder and Coach to many, I understand what it means to be a faith-driven woman who wears many hats and wants more from life and career.
I studied and graduated from the University of Illinois Gies College of Business and hold an MBA from Eastern University in Pennsylvania. My career for many years was spent preparing and launching brands into the marketplace, as a Brand and Innovation leader in the corporate sector.
Now, as a Speaker and Coach I have the honor of helping ambitious, faith-driven women to set vision, equip, and to build the confidence to launch into their purpose in life and lead with clarity and significance.
Being a mommy myself and wife, my heart is driven to see women thrive and to not just do it well, but to also BE WELL doing it.
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